SOmeone once told me dat
Love is a CHOICE
NOT so much of a FEELING....
Honestly,
this is something very new to me...
I always tot dat Loving someone is about how we feel bout dat person
I mean how can we actually choose to like someone...
It cant be like " Hey there, i choose to like you from now onwards"
There has to be some sort of a feeling/ attraction to want to like someone...
But then, i've actually learnt dat if its merely bout wat we feel
then do we stop loving someone when he/she annoys us with his/her bad habits?
Do we stop loving someone when he/she makes us angry?
Do we stop loving him/her when they're nt there when we need them most?
Do we stop loving them when they dun call?
Do we stop loving......?
If Love is all about Feelings,
how do u tink Jesus felt when He was betrayed, condemned, denied and tortured?
Still He CHOSE to die on the cross for us sinners
This is all because He CHOSE to love us...
If it was bout how He felt,
He wud have called upon the Father to save Him from man..
But He did not...
because He CHOSE to love us...
Well, i tink its de feelings that starts de whole thing
But..
I believe that in a long run
it IS a CHOICE to continue loving someone...
It is a commitment we choose to make
It cant be just the feelings...
If that is the case, we just have to endure the pain dat comes along with it...
Rite?
Till death do us part?
LOL
=]
4 comments:
i think love is just love. it covers alot of ground, feelings part of it. love makes that someone so special, that would as a result, make u make that choice (which at times may seem illogical, or simply just 'mad') to choose to keep loving, even if you dont feel like it (like the case when he/she irritates you)
my 2 cents. someone like me duno nuts bout love.
very mature of you to look beyond your current situation n circumstances!
a very good peice.
keep it going gurl =)
haiya... boring lar u alll
lol... you like this type of topics recently... Wonder is it a sign that someone got admirer de.. wahahah (JK)
Back to topic.
A guy CHOOSE to love a gal but the gal CHOOSE not to love him.
The should explain it.
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