95% Emotions 5% Spirituality

Someone recently told me dat when we fall in love,

no matter how 'holy' we are,

it's 95% emotions

while only 5% of spirituality (God) is involved.....

seriously, i've always reminded myself not to let emotions take over me...

But still each time, i fall again n again in dat 95%

then i start to get emo when things don't go the way i expect....

Trust me emotions can blind us from the Truth...

i've been half-blind....

Until Ps Lindy drew us dis illustration during cell last nite

Imagine a pyramid

U and ur potential partner on each side of the pyramid

while God is at the peak

She shared that we shud be looking towards God and not to each other

And as we move closer to Him, he'll bring both of u closer to each other...

Dis illustration really struck me....

I realized I've been relying on my own strength so much...

Dat I almost forgot dat God shud be the focus of all our relationships...

Surrender to Him and allow His will to be done....

After all, He is Our Father.....

He only wans the BEST for us....

especially when

Relationship is the second most Important Decision after our Salvation

Who we're going to marry is going to affect de rest of our life...

Serious matter ey...haha

Dun play play....

Therefore, even now

we shud pray so dat God will prepare us spiritually

and mentally to keep the main thing the Main thing

and never be swept away by emotions

when we fall in love someday...

=p