NO, a gentleman does not mean he is soft or acts like a girl...
according to the dictionary,
a gentleman is a civilized, educated, sensitive, or well-mannered man
Quite true i would say...
Allow me to elaborate more on this statement...
A true gentlemen to a girl is someone who
1. walks you to your car whether it's broad daylight or late.
2. never drive off as soon as u closes the car door. if a guy ever do dat, i guess you need to 'drive off' asap too.He shud watch as you walk into ur hse safely. If it is already late, he shud even walk you right to ur doorstep to make sure ur safely back into ur hse.
3. isn't too calculative when it comes to money
4. Never slam the door at a gal's face. open the door and let the gal go first. Common sense la!!!
5. in a crowded area, always let the girl walk in front of u so dat u can watch over her..you dun wanna walk n suddenly realize dat ur gal fren is lost somewhere rite??
6. in the cinema, when u see ur gal fren shivering. NO we're not expecting u to give us ur warm hug, ham sap!!! at least offer to get us a hot drink or ur jacket if u brought one...dun just ask"Are u cold?" (like DUH!!!it's pretty obvious rite?) and do nothing about it...
7. if u ask a gal out, never ask her to catch a cab n meet u at the mall...if u hav a car, u gotta go fetch her no matter how far or inconvenient it is....be a man!!
8. when crossing the road, lead the way...dun just walk n leave the gal behind...
9. never let you wait alone...a true gentlemen will wait with you until ur transport comes...
10. treats every gal the same not just the one (or ones) he's interested in...
nowadays, we hav to admit dat gentlemen are rare species...
it seems dat its reaching extinction...
To the guys out there,
PAY ATTENTION to these tips if u wanna win a gal's heart
sometimes...in fact most times...it is the little things dat wins a gal's heart
not big things like giving her gifts, wearing the most gaya clothes, having the funkiest hairstyle,
sweet talking etc.....
i believe most gals wud agree with me...
wat about u boys out there??
6 comments:
definitely agree with u jo..!!! yea its the little little thing that counts..
Dun require guys so much, haha...we also seek for soft women who are realising us...
to anonymous, we totally understand there are almost no such guys around anymore...i guess ur certainly not any of wat was stated..it's not a MUST to have all dat...but all those can be plus points...up to u to follow or not...as for me, guys with such qualities attracts me..but if they dun have all of them, its fine...no one's perfect..
no such guys around anymore? are you sure? maybe whats written is way too much theres why there isnt any. actually if theres really a guy thats all that, i'll really be questioning his real intentions. i dont believe that being a nice guy (gentleman) would make you do things to that extend. diff people express themselves differently.
Are you giving hint to those people that want to go after you? So those guys interested to go after her you know what to do lar. *she is gonna kill me*
Quiet agree with the statement but don't make too many. Each statement will just disqualified some guys from the title "gentlemen". lol
Ok back to serious issue. Gentlemen are not rare specie, they are not extinct also. They are actually everywhere. Just that after a while they start changing to another person when they are hurt for too many times. They try their best hoping to get back some concern and care yet they get nothing and start to feel down and start thinking what for being so nice and bla bla bla. You can disagree with me. As this is just my personal point of view.
For gal, at least try care for those that is good to you as that is all they need to continue being a gentlemen.
fuyoh...now i know why some girls i went out with a bit tak syok me..thanks for the tips..
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